The Importance of Lap Dance Etiquette
Lap dances aren’t just about entertainment—they’re a professional service provided by skilled performers. Following proper lap dance etiquette ensures that you enjoy your experience while creating a safe and respectful environment for everyone involved.
#1 – Respect the Performer
Respect is the cornerstone of lap dance etiquette. It can be said that dancers work hard to give you this experience, and they also have the right to being treated as human beings. What is never to happen or even come close to consideration is inappropriate behavior, touching in an unwanted manner, or rude comments. Always follow the lead of the dancers to see what is acceptable for both of you.
#2 – Tip Generously
For the majority of dancers, tips are the greater source of their income. Tipping generously isn't polite, it's expected. If you enjoyed the performance, give a fair tip to show appreciation. Generous tipping will also make you stand out as a respectful patron.
#3 – Follow the Rules
Every club has different rules: some allow a little bit of touching, others strictly forbid contact. Before the performance, one should always ask the dancer or staff what the rules are so that you will be sure to follow the proper lap dance etiquette.
#4 – Dress Appropriately
Most strip clubs have a dress code, especially classier ones. Dressing up is also a kind of respect to the surroundings and will further heighten your experience. Avoid very casual wear like tank tops, flip-flops, or sports clothes. You are safe anytime with smart casual wear.
#5 – Stay Sober
Why staying sober matters
It is okay to have one or two drinks but one needs to be in control. Becoming way too drunk might invite embarrassing actions that could potentially make the dancer or other clientele uncomfortable; be classy.
#6 – Don’t Haggle
Pricing is non-negotiable
The price of a lap dance is not negotiable. Attempting to haggle or trying to lowball the price on a lap dance is disrespectful of the dancer's time and energy overall. If the price doesn't fit your budget, you are welcome to enjoy a stage performance.
#7 – Keep Your Hands to Yourself
If you’re unsure about physical contact, it’s best to keep your hands to yourself. Always wait for the performer to let you know what’s allowed. Respecting boundaries is a fundamental part of lap dance etiquette.
#8 – Be Polite
Kindness goes an extremely long way in making anyone's experience very palatable. It would suffice to at least thank the performers in any small regard or throw a decent and respectful one-word compliment to them for appreciation. After all, dancers are professionals who appreciate basic courtesies extended toward them.
#9 – Support the Club
Buying drinks, leaving tips for the staff working there, and abiding by any rules the club may impose are all ways to make such a place thrive. Thus, you are helping the venue provide an enjoyable experience for every patron and performer alike.
#10 – Bring Cash
Most of the clubs will take cards, but you can always bring some cash for convenience. Cash tips are much easier and most dancers would like that. If you foresee this, you would avoid those annoying ATM fees.
#11 – Avoid Disruptive Behavior
Keeping the environment respectful and fun is a big part of lap dance etiquette. Avoid loud or disruptive behavior that might disturb other patrons or distract the performers.
#12 – Be Engaged
Show appreciation during the dance
During the lap dance, show genuine interest and appreciation. A smile, eye contact, or even light applause (when appropriate) can make the performance more enjoyable for both you and the dancer.
#13 – Don’t Monopolize the Dancer
Dancers have many customers to entertain, especially during busy nights. If you’re not booking multiple dances, allow them to move on to other patrons after your session is over.
#14 – Tip After the Dance
Besides the base fee, tipping after the dance is a very good way to show appreciation. Even a small amount of money can leave a very good impression and will be a way to build up a rapport with the performer.
#15 – Enjoy Yourself Respectfully
Above all, lap dances are meant to be fun and enjoyable. By following proper lap dance etiquette, you ensure a respectful and memorable experience for everyone involved.
Final Thoughts
Mastering lap dance etiquette is the key to having a respectful and enjoyable experience. By following these 15 tips, you’ll not only maximize your own enjoyment but also create a positive atmosphere for performers and other patrons.
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